Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Circles verses rows



Discerning shapes was one the first lessons we learned as a child in pre-school. But shapes and forms also make a difference when it comes to experiencing church. Relationships are better experienced in circles rather than in rows.

Don’t get me wrong-  I love the Sunday morning church experience of coming together with my church family. But that takes place in rows where connection is difficult. The “in and out” rush at a typical church service creates an invisible veil between people. There is just no time to be real with life or real with each other.

It’s only when the numbers break down and we sit in a circle in someone’s living room that we interact face to face. In this smaller context we are more relaxed and can be ourselves and also be more attentive to others. We stand a better chance of the veil coming down and authentically connecting in a more personal way.

That’s why Life Groups are the primary way we relationally care for each other at BridgePointe. This is “circle time” for us. Sign ups begin this Sunday. You can register online or in the lobby. If the Groups experience is new to you or you’re just not sure which group to join, your hesitation is certainly understood. To help you feel more comfortable with it, we have created a Life Groups party just for you called Inside Life Groups. It’s a chance for you to see and meet all the Life Group leaders and meet others who are just like you in wanting to explore new friendships at church. It’s a very informal, no pressure, fun way to get a feel for what a Life Groups is all about! This event is open to everyone. Our next Inside Life Groups Event is Sunday August 18, 6:30-8pm in the Worship Center.  Childcare is provided at the Foundry.

Yes-  rows are necessary. But take the next step and connect with others in circles. You’ll find the veil coming down and allowing you to experience community in authentic and meaningful ways that are life changing.

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