Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Comfortable verses compromise



What hits you first is the sweet aroma of Italian food cooking in the kitchen -  the lasagna and all sorts of pastas and pizza. The wood floors, tables, and chairs, and simple place settings give off an immediate warm feel in the place. Friendly and inviting people greet you. Everything has the feel of an informal, relaxed Sunday evening. You’ve just entered an Inside BridgePointe Event at Tuscany Restaurant in Townelake. We do these events about every other month.

Inside BridgePointe is all about connecting and communicating with people in a more personal way. We connect with people through relaxed conversation over a fantastic dinner and then communicate where we are going as a church and how people can be a part of it. Last week we hosted 12 guests. What I love about these events is the opportunity to be relationally intentional. Creating a relational environment is key to making space for new people.

Relational intentionality is the personality we want to see permeated in all that we do. A value is an intentional “vibe” that we seek in the DNA of our identity. It stems from a high premium we place on people. Ultimately, the way we connect with people as a church becomes the very platform for our message of life in Jesus Christ.

For many church leaders creating a comfortable environment for people, and especially for people far from God, is a debate often accompanied with understandable tension. The Scripture makes it clear that it is normal for unbelievers to be uncomfortable with the cross of Jesus, his message, and spiritual things no matter what we do at church.  

We are reminded that the “person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit.” (1 Corinthians 2:14-15) No matter how passionate we are in wanting to be a friendly church, we must never disguise the message of the cross nor gloss over the life-changing implications of what it means to be a Christ Follower. 

However, we must never use this truth to justify falling short of creating an inviting environment at BridgePointe. The cross should be the only “stumbling block” and “foolishness” that outsiders should face when entering our church. (I Corinthians 1:23) The Scripture gives clear space for the cross to offend, not for our church to offend. In other words, we want to create a safe place to hear a dangerous message.

Comfortable does not mean compromise at BridgePointe.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

That's not my job!



This is a story about four people named EVERYBODY, SOMEBODY, ANYBODY, and NOBODY.  There was an important job to be done and EVERYBODY was sure that SOMEBODY would do it. ANYBODY could have done it, but NOBODY did it. SOMEBODY got angry about that because it was EVERYBODY’S job. 
EVERYBODY thought that ANYBODY could do it, but NOBODY realized that EVERYBODY would do it. It ended up that EVERYBODY blamed SOMEBODY when NOBODY did what ANYBODY could have done. 

At BridgePointe we count on everybody to pitch in so we can run on all pistons and function at an optimum level.  Being part of the greatest enterprise on earth demands a “whatever it takes” attitude. That’s why God designed his church to run like a team where we all have a part in it. This is nowhere more real than on each Sunday morning. Sunday morning is “game day” for BridgePointe because it is where we impact the most people and first time guests each week. Our Sunday service is the front door for most people at BridgePointe so this must be our “Alamo stand”.

One of the targets this year is to rally a Volunteer Revolution that will focus directly on filling the serving opportunities on Sunday morning. During the entire month of October we are asking each person who makes BridgePointe their home to volunteer at least once a month in one of the six primary Sunday morning areas. In fact, you have already risen to the occasion. Just last week 25 of you responded in one Sunday and it was so appreciated:
1.     Pre-school Kids:  Need 20 more/ 2 signed up.
2.     Elementary kids:  Need 20 more / 1 signed up.
3.     Student ministry:  Need 6 more / 2 signed up.
4.     Greeting/ushering:  Need 55 more / 12 signed up.
5.     Technical Arts:  Need 7 more / 7 signed up.
6.     Set up & tear down: Need 55 more / 6 signed up.
The needed numbers are beginning to lower. We are asking for an “all hands on deck” to be our best on Sunday. We only get one chance to make a first impression.  

So here are two turnkey ready opportunities where you can make a difference this month:

  • Sign up for one of the six areas noted in the bulletin for at least once a month.
  • Update your contact information on the tear of portion of the bulletin or on CCB. (See insert card in the bulletin) 

Everybody should not assume that somebody will respond to what everybody can do, but that nobody does.